The Mamita Trio

I’m not sure anyone can be reduced by the objects they used, but these three unimpressive, dowdy even, treasures are Mamita incarnate. The thimble, ever present as she sewed our clothes. The scissors that she’d carry around in her apron pocket and which snipped away many a “this” and “that.” And the amber bottle with “Elixer Donatal” written in her hand on the fading label. The jewel green liquid medicine had Crème de menthe flavoring and was dispensed frequently by the spoonful for her “nervous stomach.”  Donatal is indeed an elixir. Laced with belladonna and phenobarbital (i.e., a barbiturate), it was just the thing for a homemaker grandmother with a jumpy tummy. It’s also highly “habit-forming.”  Here’s the irony of ironies. Mamita died of stomach cancer at the age of 81. I miss her.

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Isabel’s Unrequitted Imperial Vase

We all called her “Mother” but her given name was Isabel Cremata (also called Belica.) As my great-aunt told it, she was given this lovely Imperial Nippon hand-painted vase circa 1925 by a young physician admirer. “I returned neither his love…nor his vase” she quipped a good 60 years later to me. I always loved its graceful shape and colors, and it was among the treasures I received from that beautiful spirit, who held on so dearly to life well into her 90’s (wearing red lipstick no less).

Angel Maria Serves White Rice

The phoenix blue and white platter (also known as the flying turkey) belonged to your great-great-grandfather, Angel Maria Cremata. He was Mamita’s father and quite a “larger than life” figure: he was a “free thinker,” devout atheist, political party animal, tobacco worker, and one-time anarchist.

“Papa” would serve white rice at family meals on this platter. The marking in the back says “Japan” which means it was produced between 1921 and 1941. He passed away in 1943.